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Post by Hay-Lin on Oct 18, 2008 8:51:18 GMT -6
........Umm.......okay....You'll find someone! Maybe........Yeah, I can't do this right now! *walks out of the room*
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Post by Lu Bu on Oct 18, 2008 22:09:56 GMT -6
maybe I guess...
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Post by Hay-Lin on Oct 19, 2008 8:31:31 GMT -6
Don't give up!!! You'll TOTALLY find someone!!!!!! I know it!!!
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Quentinos
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"The Man With A Thousand Mask"
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Post by Quentinos on Oct 27, 2008 8:04:37 GMT -6
I thnk that you should be in love with the one you find by yourself, not your parents! It''s almost like Rama 1/2, but he liked his first bride. LOL! He had too many! Aye, I agree as well. The problem is, is the girls/woman in south east asia here has a preference of themselves, and as well as for the men here that still has the traditional aspect of "chauvinism" meaning: it is quite "shameful" for them with their social status, to find their partners with the help of agency. Thats y, the parents intervene? Note that, this applies to the "older" men and women who remain singles or their personalities, lifestyles, working that somehow "restricted" they social ability to find their lifetime partners. For japan, finding the "right" mate is essential for male and female families, some are due to their social status. Example doctors family can't be introduced to the blue collar worker family. Something like that do happen in japan society, and they do remain biase to the "lower" class section of people. It is awful, that I know, but I also know Japan is a face pace countries in the world. Their traditional aspect remains, and they treat marriage is most importance and they do not thread it lightly.
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Post by Lu Bu on Oct 27, 2008 16:04:21 GMT -6
Don't give up!!! You'll TOTALLY find someone!!!!!! I know it!!! maybe I hope.
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Post by Hay-Lin on Oct 27, 2008 17:08:28 GMT -6
Yes, i know marriage is very important to them. And I can't change their minds so easily.
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Post by Lu Bu on Oct 27, 2008 17:22:34 GMT -6
yeah it takes a long debate
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Tenchi
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Post by Tenchi on Oct 30, 2008 13:01:39 GMT -6
Yeah arranged marriges are stupid. That sums it up.
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Post by Hay-Lin on Oct 30, 2008 15:00:45 GMT -6
Yeah, I can say that too.
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Post by Sanada Yukimura on Nov 9, 2008 13:02:09 GMT -6
It seems rude to me go for whom you want, arranged marriges are treating women like chess pieces
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Post by Hay-Lin on Nov 9, 2008 14:03:13 GMT -6
Yes, oh my god. I HATE it when men treat women like 'things'....I just don't know what is up with them!
Women have thier own minds too! Men can't always control the relationship, women can totally control it too, if you know what I mean.
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Post by britney on Nov 9, 2008 15:01:17 GMT -6
Yes, oh my god. I HATE it when men treat women like 'things'....I just don't know what is up with them! Women have thier own minds too! Men can't always control the relationship, women can totally control it too, if you know what I mean. I Know! I totally hate that
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Post by Lu Bu on Nov 9, 2008 15:54:03 GMT -6
hey to use a man like that too come on u have to be insane enough to go for Arranged marriagies
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